This is a guest post by Sylly Syll who writes about the cons of being a sought after healer.
Certainly, negatives might not immediately leap to mind for a healer who has a lot of friends, is generally considered to be talented and capable, and is offered seemingly endless opportunities to do runs for which other classes have to sell their soul to get a spot. (WTB Healer PST). However, for me there have been some definite downsides to this situation since WOLK hit. Specifically, being constantly whispered by friends, guildies, and strangers to heal. Ã¢â‚¬Å“Please, please, PLEASE heal this run for me so Ican get the much coveted Epic Boots of AwesomenessÃ¢â‚¬Â, I hear, leading to me running more instances than IÃ¢â‚¬â„¢d ever dream of initiating on my own, which leaves me struggling often with the following three issues:
1. Poverty: Repair bills, raid and instance pots, buff foods, enchants, gems vs. no time to raise gold to offset costs leaves me perpetually scrounging for cash. And, of course, even when I find the time to quest or farm, healers are faced with the daunting task of boring mobs to death. No lightning-fast, face-ripping pew pew for us. Alas and alack, none at all. Over the holidays I blew through well over 1000 gold sending toys and purely frivolous fun things to dozens of people who make me smile on my server. It was without contest the best time IÃ¢â‚¬â„¢ve ever had spending gold in WOW. It lit me up like a Christmas tree. And as great as that was, a couple of weeks ago when I was scraping by to get pots for a Naxx raid, I almost regretted spending that gold. Best gold I ever spent, and I almost lamented having spent it. ThatÃ¢â‚¬â„¢s pretty gristly food for thought.
2. Healing burnout: On occasion I just want to sit on a mountaintop and take in the amazing art of the game, or putz around Dalaran checking out all the vendor goodies, or doing some other innocuous, ultimately unproductive activity. Sometimes I just want to quest all by my lonesome, where the only death I could possibly be responsible for is my own. From time to time I just feel like parking my carcass in a quiet corner of the world and carrying on a long conversation (typed or otherwise) with one of the friends I treasure in the game. Because of the healer shortage, finding time for these things can be hard, which can leave me a little grouchy, a little snarky, a little closer to trading bark for feathers and doing the Chris Farley bop.
3. Guilt: When I log on and my guild message of the day is replaced instantaneously by a sea of purple text with friends saying "omg now we can run!" "SYLL! come heal x for us!!!" "Have you done the daily?" etc. etc. ad infinitum, I feel instantly guilty, whether I tell one or none of them yes, because ultimately I have to turn someone that I like down.
Of course, all three of these issues could be solved very easily and with finality in a number of ways. I could give up the wait for dual specs, jump into a feathery owl suit, and leave it to others to heal me. Or maybe I could come up with a list of runs that I either needed or really enjoyed, and categorically refuse to run anything else. I could turn off WOW and go clean my house. No, not really. That third one was just silly. But IÃ¢â‚¬â„¢ve come up with a couple of solutions that are not so drastic as these to keep this tree blooming and happy, willing to spread the leafy goodness around. They are not perfect or complete solutions, but for me they seem to be doing the trick. Even though IÃ¢â‚¬â„¢m resto, this druid needed some balance in her life.
HereÃ¢â‚¬â„¢s some places I found it.
1. Loosening up the bank vault: IÃ¢â‚¬â„¢m a terrific hoarder of mats. Leatherworking mats, enchanting mats, gear for 3 specs (even though the moon will fall out of the sky before I use my druid to tank), all KINDS of goodies find their way into my bank, or my bank toonÃ¢â‚¬â„¢s bank, never again to see the light of day. IÃ¢â‚¬â„¢ve recently started to let these things make their way to the auction house or the vendor. Sure, some guildie might need me to make something for them and I wonÃ¢â‚¬â„¢t have the mats immediately on hand. This is a possibility. But then he can farm the mats. Or I can. Or we can together. Surely the world will not end if I auction some of the goods IÃ¢â‚¬â„¢ve leveled a profession to make, right?
2. Providing the hook up: To assuage some of my guilt over saying no to healing a run, IÃ¢â‚¬â„¢ve been trying to hook up friends or guildies who might not have otherwise run together. So when someone asks me to heal heroic Old Kingdom, I might say to them, Ã¢â‚¬Å“You know that run is almost impossible with a resto druid in the group, right? Let me see if my holy pally friend is busy. Maybe he can go with you.Ã¢â‚¬Â Even if the hookup doesnÃ¢â‚¬â„¢t happen, I still feel better for having actively tried to help, rather than just saying Ã¢â‚¬Å“no, kthxbyeÃ¢â‚¬Â.
3. One hand washes the other: IÃ¢â‚¬â„¢ve recently, when asked to heal a run, let some of my friends know that I need to get some work of my own done, and asked them if they would mind helping to speed me through some dailies if I help to heal their instance. This is definitely a win-win arrangement for all involved.
4. WhereÃ¢â‚¬â„¢s Syll?: I confess; I hide on alts. DPS alts. This doesnÃ¢â‚¬â„¢t cut out on all of my invitations to heal, as many of my friends know who my alts are, but it does reduce the number of invites when I just donÃ¢â‚¬â„¢t feel like being a productive member of society.
5. Offpeak hours: I have a pretty strange sleeping schedule, and often am wide awake at 4:00 a.m. 4:00 a.m. is a wonderful time in WOW. Nothing is camped. Quest mobs abound. Quiet scenery is there for me to soak up at will. I get a lot done at 4:00 a.m.
Although these strategies are not perfect, theyÃ¢â‚¬â„¢ve made me a much happier healer. I have a comfortable amount of gold in my bank, IÃ¢â‚¬â„¢m quite a bit happier to run the instances I do run, and I have a clear conscience about how IÃ¢â‚¬â„¢m spending my time in WOW. No one wants their game to become their work. I know I donÃ¢â‚¬â„¢t. It is my disposition to be most happy in the support role that healers inhabit. As a rule, I adore healing raids and instances. But WOW is a huge game that offers opportunities for me to indulge many other aspects of my personality, as well. I can be social or introspect, helpful or greedy, ambitious or a big lazy sloth. ItÃ¢â‚¬â„¢s a relief to work out these balances. It makes my healing stronger.
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